My Friend From Hungary

I met a lady from Hungary in the psychiatric prison (I was taken for political reasons), I do not know why she was inside. People lied about me. I do not know the full account of the lies they told.

We became friends and ate together and she came my cell. She felt safe with me in my cell. She had other friends. We kissed every day and I protected her from a violent prisoner. She was very unhappy when I first met her then as our relationship developed she became happy.

She had no possessions apart from the rags she wore but I saw beauty under her rags.

She told stories of how she was raped and robbed by violent men on the street. I recall I saw a picture of her in a television film about down-and-outs who slept rough walking away from the camera after eating something she found in a dustbin.

I was released but re-admitted myself to be with her.

I promised to marry her and support her. I gave her money to renew her passport. I promised to support her.

We were eventually released and I took her home and gave her an expensive diamond and gold engagement ring. I bought her clothes and took her out in my car and we used to sit on a beach near Portsmouth. Now everything she has I bought for her.

She told me she had come into the country with some savings (about £2000) and took a train to Gerard's Cross to find a flat and seek work. She spoke not a word on English and no one spoke Hungarian.

She was approached by a man who she fancied and he frog marched her to his house where she agreed to be tied up for fifteen minutes. He kept her naked and with her hands tied for three years in his house. She could not escape and no one heard her cries for help. When she got hungry she gave him access to her ban account and he stole all her money. He used to leave her for hours when he went to work and kept her in a darkened room so she lost track of day and night. She was only 24 at the time and had no experience of men because her aunt had kept men away in her own country. Which is why she saved up for years on low wages in Hungary to come to England where her local Catholic priest had told her that Britain was paved with gold. (It is but they won't give you any).

Eventually help came when neighbours and the police broke in and released her. By this time she had learned English and spent months in hospital babbling.

Later she was invited to a night club where she was drugged and put naked and tied into a cage where men paid to look at her and book her for sex.

She was forced into the worlds oldest profession by hunger and hates the men who pay her for sex. (Jesus married a prostitute).

She has been stripped and raped several times and she takes her clothes off for money.

She has had her drink spiked and taken to a place where men took it in turns to rape her, tied naked to a bed.

Her experience twisted up her mind and now she exploits men and she steals small quantities of money from me. She lives from day to day with no idea of the future.

When she met me she said that it was like the handcuffs had dropped off her.

She did find work as a dental nurse where she earned £7 an hour. She also worked as a au pair looking after children and old ladies.

She went from bedroom to bedroom and formed relationships with men who lived in adjoining rooms. She lived in one place where she rented a room for four years and formed a relationship with the man who let out the room in his house.

She is no longer in work and the Department of Work give her no help and because she has no record of national health contributions for two years she does not get jobseekers allowance and there is no social security payment for her either.

She relied on me for the small amount of money I can give her and I suppose what other men give her when she "works".

The future is not bright for her. She is 37 and so soon she will not have the looks to attract men to pay her for her body.

It is like that in Britain.

I cannot offer her much but I have offered to share half my wealth with her and she may come and go as she pleases and sex is optional. We sleep together occasionally when I can afford a hotel room and she lives with me in the family house. She often goes out to visit friends. She says she no longer depends on "those men" as I support her. However if she gets hungry as she cannot eat English food (I give her money to buy food for her and my family and we sometimes eat together) and wants to go to a restaurant to buy food she thinks of looking for "work" on the street she she can buy a meal she can eat. I try to give her money so she does not have to but my resources are limited.

Eastern European women are often treated like that as they are "spoils of Victory". Britain is not a democracy let us make it so.

She wants to find a career as a dental nurse which she has worked at and she has also been a dental technician but she cannot find a vacancy. She has no qualifications in this field but she does have Hungarian qualifications. She gets work for a day or a few hours at a time now, she has no idea about finding work.

I understand that she was prevented from going to work by men who kept her a sex prisoner for months and drugged and handcuffed her.

When She has problem that requires thought she gets a head ache. That is because her frontal lobe is damaged probably by a steel needle forced into her head when she was a prisoner at a British Mental Hospital. Is is the same pain that occurs when a limb is amputated.
 
You see the frontal lobe is a multiple copy of the spinal chord with limbs attached (these form the muscles around the head) where actions are tried out before the body does them. There is another segment that specialises in recording the input and output states so a sequence of actions may be tried "in the head" before the body is committed to carrying out the action.
 
More abstract concepts that we have are part of this process in another set of discs further forward and this part has been damaged.
 
She was also on respronadol (something like that) which depresses that part of the brain and makes the victim thoughtless.
 
It is another case of abuse. The treatment is the abuse. They think that intelligence is something that prevents workers getting on and earn money so they make people stupid so they can do the menial tasks that "workers" do. It also makes them obedient to "aristocrats".
 

Chris.